THE CONFESSION

You carry desires you've never spoken. Fantasies you think about alone but haven't dared to share.

The things you want but fear will make you seem:
Too much.
Too strange.
Too hungry.

• What if the most erotic thing you could say isn't "I want you"?
• What if it's "I want this"?

This ritual doesn't ask you to perform someone else's fantasy. It asks you to speak your own. Out loud. To the person you trust most. And then watch what happens when desire becomes speakable.

You'll Need:

- Two envelopes
- Paper and pen
- Worship Me Body Play Oil (either blend works)
- A candle
- Courage (the most important ingredient)

The Practice:

STEP 1: THE WRITING

This ritual begins in silence.

Each of you writes down something you've never said aloud.

A fantasy you've been carrying.
A desire you've been afraid to name.
The thing you think about alone but haven't dared to share.

Don't censor it.
Don't soften it.
Don't make it smaller than it is.

Just write it. Seal it in an envelope. Don't talk about it yet.

STEP 2: THE THRESHOLD

1. Light a candle.
2. Dim the lights.
3. Warm the oil between your palms.
4. Let the scent fill the space between you.

This is the threshold. Once you cross it, there's no pretending you don't know what 
the other wants.

Take a breath together. Then begin.

STEP 3: THE CONFESSION

1. Take turns.
2. One person opens an envelope and reads it aloud.
3. Not in your head.
4. Not whispered.
5. Aloud.

Let the words hang in the air. Let vulnerability become the most erotic thing in the room.

STEP 4: THE RECEIVING

The listener's only job:

1. Receive it without flinching.
2. Without judgment.
3. Without making it smaller than it is.
4. Then breathe.

And ask: Do you want me to give you this? Now?"

STEP 5: THE ANSWER

If yes:

1. Use the oil.
2. Use your hands.
3. Use your mouth.
4. Use whatever the fantasy asks for.
5. Move slowly even if the fantasy is fast.
6. Build even if it's about breaking.
7. Let the reality be richer than the imagination ever was.

If not yet: Fold the paper carefully. Look at them. Say: "I'm holding this for you. When you're ready." Either answer is sacred.

STEP 6: THE AFTERMATH

After, stay close. Skin to skin. Let the confession settle into your bodies as something you now share. The fantasy might have been individual. But the courage to speak it? That's intimacy.

Why This Matters

Fantasy lives in the gap between what we want and what we think we're allowed to want. Most people carry that gap their entire lives.

• They think about desires they'll never name.
• They want things they'll never ask for.
• They hunger for experiences they assume would make them seem too much.
• The gap doesn't close because the fantasy disappears.
• The gap closes when you speak it.

THE CONFESSION TEACHES YOU:

1. Desire doesn't make you too much. Silence makes you less than you are.
2. The bravest thing you can do isn't trying something new. It's admitting you want to.
3. Vulnerability isn't weakness. It's the most erotic thing you can offer.

NOT BY DEMANDING PERFORMANCE. BUT BY MAKING DESIRE SPEAKABLE.

The oil makes skin ready. The candle marks sacred time. But the confession? That's what makes this worship. Ready to Confess?

Shop Body Play Oils →