About Worship Me

What is Worship Me?

Worship Me is a luxury intimacy house devoted to restoring presence, pleasure, and connection. Our products aren't just for touch - they are tools of devotion. Food-grade body oils, sensual rituals, and intimate teachings designed to turn foreplay into ceremony and relationships into living altars.

Why are Worship Me oils priced the way they are?

Think about the difference between a meal that costs you twenty minutes and a meal that someone spent all day preparing - the same hunger is being fed, but the experience, the care, and what you carry away from it are entirely different things.

Worship Me Body Play Oils are made from 100% food-grade, premium botanical ingredients - the kind that are safe to taste, gentle on skin, and chosen for both their sensory quality and their purity. No fillers. No synthetic extenders. No compromises made for the sake of a lower price point.

But the price also reflects something harder to quantify: the philosophy, the ritual guidance, the 20+ minutes of audio, and the intention behind every element of what you receive. You're not buying a bottle of oil. You're investing in a practice - one designed to genuinely change how you experience intimacy.

Luxury, at its best, isn't about what something costs. It's about what it's worth. And what it's worth is a relationship that feels alive, present, and deeply felt.

What does "devotional intimacy" actually mean?

Devotional intimacy is the difference between a meal eaten standing over the sink and the same meal set at a table, with candles lit and nowhere else to be. The ingredients haven't changed. The intention has changed everything.

Most of us were never taught to be present in intimacy - we were taught to perform it. Devotional intimacy is the practice of returning. To slowness. To attention. To the radical act of treating the person in front of you - and the moment itself - as something worth honouring.

It isn't a technique. It's a way of arriving.

What makes Worship Me different from other intimacy brands?

Most intimacy brands sell products. We sell presence.

  1. Them: "Try this new position." Us: "Try being fully present for the one you're already in."
  2. Them: Efficiency and performance. Us: Slowness and devotion.
  3. Them: Products for better sex. Us: Practices for sacred intimacy.

We're for lovers who refuse to love half-alive.

Can Worship Me help if our intimacy feels disconnected or routine?

Most couples don’t fall out of love. They fall out of presence.

It happens gradually - the way a song you once loved can play in the background for weeks without you really hearing it anymore. The feeling is still there. The capacity is still there. You’ve simply stopped listening.

Worship Me exists for exactly this moment. Not to fix what’s broken, but to restore what’s been quietly set aside. The oils, the rituals, the practice of slowing down and touching with intention - these are the things that make you press pause and hear the song again.

For many people, the barrier to deeper intimacy isn’t desire - it’s the quiet fear of not being enough. Not skilled enough, not present enough, not desirable enough. That voice is more common than anyone admits, and it turns intimacy into a performance no one actually wanted to give.

The oils don’t solve that with a formula. They solve it by giving both people something to focus on other than their own performance. When touch becomes devotional — when the entire point is presence rather than outcome — there’s no space left for the voice that was keeping score. Confidence, it turns out, isn’t something you summon. It’s something that arrives when you stop auditing yourself and start feeling.

Connection was never the problem. Attention is always the answer.

Is Worship Me inclusive?

Entirely.
We honour all identities, orientations, dynamics, and expressions of love.
Intimacy is universal. Reverence belongs to everyone.

I'm in a same-sex relationship / I'm trans / My partner is non-binary. Which book should I get?

Our books use "him" and "her" language because anatomy matters when learning devotional touch. Choose the book that corresponds to the body you're worshipping - or get both to understand the full spectrum of pleasure. The principles (slowness, presence, reverence, devotion) are universal. The techniques are body-specific. Adapt as needed for your unique dynamic.

Can Worship Me help if our intimacy feels disconnected or routine?

Most couples don't fall out of love. They fall out of presence.

It happens gradually - the way a song you once loved can play in the background for weeks without you really hearing it anymore. The feeling is still there. The capacity is still there. You've simply stopped listening.

Worship Me exists for exactly this moment. Not to fix what's broken, but to restore what's been quietly set aside. The oils, the rituals, the practice of slowing down and touching with intention - these are the things that make you press pause and hear the song again.

Connection was never the problem. Attention is always the answer.

The Oils

What does Wëh and Yäh mean?

Before touch, before desire, there is breath - the body’s first rhythm, the language we spoke before words existed. In Worship Me, breath becomes the foundation of everything.

Yäh is the inhale. The awakening. The quiet electric moment when curiosity lights the skin. Activation, arousal, the inner yes spoken without words.

Wëh is the exhale. The surrender. The softening into safety, pleasure, and trust. The moment the body whispers: I am ready to be touched.

Together, they form the rhythm of devotion. Yäh oils ignite - they heighten curiosity, spark exploration, and call lovers closer. Wëh oils melt - they soften the body, deepen pleasure, and open the heart.

To explore the full practice of breath and intimacy, visit The Breath page on our site.

What is the difference between Mocha Mood and Forbidden Nectar?

Think of them as different moods for different moments.

MOCHA MOOD - Yäh (The Awakening)

When: You want heat, activation, come here now.

Scent: Rich chocolate, roasted coffee, velvet warmth.

Effect: Ignites desire, heightens awareness, makes bodies crave.

FORBIDDEN NECTAR - Wëh (The Surrender)

When: You want softness, surrender, stay here forever.

Scent: Peach, apricot, golden honey, French vanilla.

Effect: Melts tension, opens hearts, makes time disappear.

Both are divine - just tuned to different frequencies of pleasure. Can’t choose? Get both. Your body knows which one it needs tonight.

What’s the best oil for beginners?

Mocha Mood if you’re craving passion. Forbidden Nectar if you’re craving softness. You cannot choose wrong - they serve different moments and mood

What does the oil feel like on skin?

Think of the difference between a heavy winter coat and a second skin - both provide warmth, but one you forget you’re wearing. That’s the closest analogy we have.

Worship Me Body Play Oils absorb rather than sit. There’s no greasiness, no residue, no moment where you become aware of the product instead of the person. Just a silky, weightless glide that makes the skin feel like it’s been remembered.

Is the scent strong or subtle?

It’s the difference between walking past a bakery and sitting inside one.

Close, it’s warm and immediate - rich and enveloping in the way a scent can shift the entire atmosphere of a room. From a little distance, it becomes something softer: a trace, a suggestion, something the other person leans toward without quite knowing why.

Mocha Mood is warmer and deeper - the olfactory equivalent of a low, unhurried voice. Forbidden Nectar is lighter and more golden, like warm skin in afternoon light. Neither announces itself. Both are felt before they’re named

How long does one bottle last?

That depends entirely on how slowly you move.

For most couples using the oils regularly - two to three times a week - a 120ml bottle will last between four and six weeks. For those who use them for longer, more immersive rituals, closer to three to four weeks. For occasional use, considerably longer.

The oils are concentrated enough that a small amount goes further than you’d expect. Think of it less like a product you use up and more like a practice you return to

Is this just a fancy massage oil?

A massage oil and a Worship Me Body Play Oil share some of the same ingredients the way a Sunday drive and a road trip share the same road. The mechanics have something in common. The intention, the experience, and where you end up are entirely different.

Massage oils are designed for muscle relief and relaxation. Our oils are designed for devotion - for the kind of touch that makes the other person feel like the only thing in the room. They’re food-grade and kissable, which means your mouth is as welcome as your hands. They’re crafted for full-body exploration, slow foreplay, tasting, and the kind of presence that doesn’t have a finish line.

If a massage oil is functional, a Worship Me oil is ceremonial. Same motion. Different universe.

How are Worship Me oils different from coconut oil or baby oil?

Baby oil is a petroleum-derived product developed for infants - not edible, not food-grade, and not safe for intimate use. Coconut oil is simple hydration, nothing more.

Worship Me Body Play Oils are crafted from a precision blend of light, high-absorption botanicals - MCT oil, grapeseed, apricot kernel, sunflower - that melt into the skin with a velvety, friction-free glide. They’re 100% food-grade, kissable, and designed specifically for sensory intimacy: tasting, body worship, slow foreplay, full-body exploration. The aromatic blends are formulated to stimulate presence and desire, not just moisturise.

Baby oil is for babies. Coconut oil is for the kitchen. Worship Me Body Play Oils are for lovers.

How do I use the oils?

The basic practice: warm a small amount between your hands (or your lips - we won’t judge). Start somewhere unexpected - not the obvious places. Trace their collarbone like it’s fascinating territory. Let your hands become curious, not efficient. When your mouth wants to taste, let it.

The real practice: slow down. Touch like you have an hour, not ten minutes. Let their skin teach you what it wants. Stop performing. Start feeling.

Each oil also includes 20+ minutes of audio ritual guidance. But the short version? Pour. Warm. Slow down. Taste.

Can I use the oils for solo play?

Absolutely. Worship Me is not just for lovers - it’s for the lover within.

Our oils are crafted for self-reverence, self-love, and embodied pleasure, making them just as powerful for solo rituals as partnered play. Worship isn’t something you wait to receive. It’s something you claim.

Will the oils stain my sheets?

Our oils are lightweight and designed to absorb beautifully, but as with any oil-based product, some transfer is possible. The fix is simple: blot (don’t rub) any excess, apply a degreasing dish soap directly to the spot, leave it for 15–30 minutes, then wash in the hottest water your fabric allows. Air dry before putting sheets in the dryer - heat can set any remaining oil.

Our favourite solution: keep a designated dark throw or pleasure towel for your ritual nights. Surrender fully, launder lovingly

The Books

What’s in the Worship Her / Worship Him books?

Think of them as the education in devotional touch that nobody ever gave you - structured not around techniques to execute, but around the art of paying attention.

Each book guides you through the philosophy of worship first, because how you think about your partner’s body determines how you touch it. From there, they move into specific practices - breath work, ritual setting, touch sequences, and the kind of unhurried, intentional exploration that transforms intimacy from something you do into something you inhabit together.

Worship Her is written for the person who wants to make her feel like the most sacred thing in the room. Worship Him is written for the person who wants to make him feel deeply met, desired, and seen.

Both books are grounded in the same principle: that the greatest gift you can offer another person is your full, undivided presence.

Are the books explicit?

They are intimate without being clinical, and sensual without being pornographic.

The closest comparison is the difference between a film that shows you everything and one that makes you feel everything. Explicit content performs. Worship Her and Worship Him invite - into curiosity, into attention, into the kind of depth that makes intimacy genuinely transformative rather than simply physical.

If you’re looking for instruction in presence and devotional touch, with the honesty and depth that requires, these books are for you.

What are the 20+ minutes of audio rituals?

Each Worship Me Body Play Oil comes with guided audio rituals - immersive, unhurried experiences designed to be listened to during your practice, not before it.

Think of them less like a tutorial and more like a slow, intimate score - something that holds the space while you and your partner move through it. The guidance is soft and directional: where to begin, how to slow down, what to pay attention to, when to follow the body rather than the instructions.

They exist because the hardest part of devotional intimacy isn’t knowing what to do. It’s giving yourself permission to take the time. The audio does that for you - it creates a container, so all you have to do is arrive.

Getting Started

I’ve never used an intimacy product before. Where do I start?

You don’t need to know how to dance to feel moved by music. You just need to be willing to listen.

Start with a single oil - whichever scent calls to you instinctively, because the body already knows what it needs. Set aside more time than you think you’ll use. Begin somewhere unexpected - a shoulder, a forearm, the back of a neck - and let curiosity lead rather than intention.

You don’t need a ritual. You don’t need to do it right. You just need to slow down enough to feel what’s already there. Everything Worship Me offers is designed to support that. But the beginning is always the same: one moment of presence, unhurried.

Do I need to follow a specific ritual or practice?

No more than you need a recipe to make someone feel welcome in your home. A recipe helps - it gives you a starting point, a direction, a way to begin. But the warmth that makes the evening memorable isn’t in the recipe. It’s in the attention you bring to it.

Our rituals and audio guidance are offered the same way. Use them as a doorway, not a doctrine. The only requirement is that you arrive with presence. Everything else unfolds from there.

What are the 20+ minutes of audio rituals?

Each Worship Me Body Play Oil comes with guided audio rituals - immersive, unhurried experiences designed to be listened to during your practice, not before it.

Think of them less like a tutorial and more like a slow, intimate score - something that holds the space while you and your partner move through it. The guidance is soft and directional: where to begin, how to slow down, what to pay attention to, when to follow the body rather than the instructions.

They exist because the hardest part of devotional intimacy isn’t knowing what to do. It’s giving yourself permission to take the time. The audio does that for you - it creates a container, so all you have to do is arrive.

Safety & Care

Are your oils safe to taste?

Yes - that’s the entire point. Every Worship Me Body Play Oil is 100% food-grade. Touched, tasted, kissed, savoured. Your tongue has full permission.

Can I use the oils internally?

Worship Me Body Play Oils are designed for external pleasure, not internal penetration. They are kissable, edible, and safe for tasting and full-body exploration - but they are not formulated or classified as internal lubricants.

They are perfect for sensual massage, body worship, tasting play, and external intimate touch. They are not intended for vaginal or anal penetration, use with latex condoms, or with toys that require lubrication compatibility.

Can I use the oils with condoms or toys?

Oil-based products are not compatible with latex condoms and may degrade certain toy materials. If using protection, choose polyurethane or nitrile condoms, which are oil-compatible. Opt for silicone-based or non-latex toys.

Are your oils vegan and cruelty-free?

Yes. Our Body Play Oils are vegan, cruelty-free, and palm-oil-free, made with ethically sourced ingredients. We honour the body and the planet with everything we create.

Are your oils safe for sensitive skin?

We use gentle, natural botanicals chosen for nourishment, glide, and safety. As with any product, we recommend a patch test first - especially if you have known sensitivities.

Can I use the oils on my face or hair?

The oils are made from gentle, nourishing botanicals that many people find beautiful on skin - and a small number of our community do use them in broader body rituals.

That said, they are formulated specifically for intimate body use, and we recommend keeping them there. For the face in particular, everyone’s skin responds differently to oils, and what nourishes the body may not suit the more sensitive skin of the face. As with anything new, a patch test on a small area first is always wise.

For hair, the lighter botanical oils in the blend — particularly MCT and grapeseed — can add a beautiful softness and sheen in small amounts. Think of it the way you’d use a hair serum: a little, worked through the ends rather than the roots

Do the oils have an expiry date?

Yes. Each bottle carries a best before date, and we recommend using your oil within 12 months of opening.

The botanical oils in our formula are natural and living, which is precisely what makes them so beautiful on skin - and also why they have a shelf life. Store away from direct sunlight and heat. Once opened, keep the lid closed between uses.

Think of them the way you’d think of a fine olive oil - made to be used, not preserved. Which feels right, somehow.

For hair, the lighter botanical oils in the blend - particularly MCT and grapeseed - can add a beautiful softness and sheen in small amounts. Think of it the way you’d use a hair serum: a little, worked through the ends rather than the roots