THE THRESHOLD
The kids are finally asleep. And you feel... nothing. Not because you don't love each other, but because you never crossed the threshold from "parent" to "partner." The Threshold ritual:...
Welcome to the Ritual Vault (Where Theory Becomes Touch)
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Shop Body Play OilsPhilosophy Without Practice Is Just Pretty Words
You've read the manifestos.
You understand the philosophy.
You know devotion matters.
Now what?
This is where it gets real.- Where oils meet skin.
- Where breath meets intention.
- Where "I should be more present" becomes "I am present right now."
Each ritual is:
- Specific (no vague "be more intimate" advice)
- Timed (5 minutes to an hour - you choose)
- Practical (actual steps, not just concepts)
- Transformative (changes how you touch, not just what you do)
Choose your ritual. Begin the practice.
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The Worship Me Way
Presence Over Performance
Most intimacy advice tells you to "try new things."
- New positions.
- New toys.
- New locations.
We're asking you to try something harder:
- Slow down.
Our rituals follow one principle: Presence over performance.
Which means:- Food-grade oils designed to be tasted, not just felt
- Practices that guide you back to breath and sensation
- The kind of attention that rewrites intimacy from the inside out
This isn't about doing it "right." It's about doing it slowly. And discovering what happens when efficiency stops being the goal.
The rituals can be practiced at any stage. But knowing the Ritual Journey Arc below changes everything.
Four Stages of Devotion
Every intimate encounter moves through four natural stages. Understanding this arc helps you know what your bodies are asking for.
1. EXPLORE
Awakening curiosity through touch.
- The stage of discovery. Where slowness reveals what rushing misses.
- Where their collarbone becomes fascinating territory.
2. DEVOUR
Hunger surfacing without apology
The stage where restraint breaks.
- Where hands become mouths.
- Where "slow" becomes impossible.
3. RAVAGE
4. CHERISH
Devotion in the afterglow The stage most people skip.
- Where you hold each other and remember:
- This is what we came here for.
The Rituals
RITUALS
THE THRESHOLD
The kids are finally asleep. And you feel... nothing. Not because you don't love each other, but because you never crossed the threshold from "parent" to "partner." The Threshold ritual:...
THE REUNION
When you've been apart, your nervous systems forget how to be close. The Reunion ritual: sit face-to-face, breathe together, re-enter each other's orbit before re-entering bodies. Because the most important...
THE REUNION
When you've been apart, your nervous systems forget how to be close. The Reunion ritual: sit face-to-face, breathe together, re-enter each other's orbit before re-entering bodies. Because the most important...
THE MIDNIGHT CLAIM
Routine kills desire. But what if the most sacred thing you could do tonight is break your own rules? "Meet me in the car in five minutes. No underwear." This...
THE MIDNIGHT CLAIM
Routine kills desire. But what if the most sacred thing you could do tonight is break your own rules? "Meet me in the car in five minutes. No underwear." This...
THE SURRENDER
Power isn't about dominance. It's about trust made tangible. The Surrender ritual teaches lovers how to trade control for devotion: one person binds, teases, commands. The other waits, aches, surrenders....
THE SURRENDER
Power isn't about dominance. It's about trust made tangible. The Surrender ritual teaches lovers how to trade control for devotion: one person binds, teases, commands. The other waits, aches, surrenders....
THE CONFESSION
Fantasy lives in the gap between what we want and what we think we're allowed to want. The Confession ritual closes that gap. Two envelopes. Two secrets. The bravest thing...
THE CONFESSION
Fantasy lives in the gap between what we want and what we think we're allowed to want. The Confession ritual closes that gap. Two envelopes. Two secrets. The bravest thing...
THE FEAST
There's a difference between being touched and being tasted. The Feast ritual turns your lover's body into an altar and your mouth into the prayer. Oil-slicked skin. Honey trails. Chocolate...
THE FEAST
There's a difference between being touched and being tasted. The Feast ritual turns your lover's body into an altar and your mouth into the prayer. Oil-slicked skin. Honey trails. Chocolate...